During this whole time, David simply continued
to assure me of his support: "I want you to have these babies wherever you
are going to be the most comfortable. That's where I want you to go." We
finally agreed that I would go to Tennessee and he would come later when he had
vacation time a week before my due date, stay, and then we'd all go home
together. Of course, we took the chance of the babies coming early before he
could come, but we resigned ourselves to that possibility.
I spent my first three weeks on The Farm in bed. My checkup found a thinning cervix and I was dilating slowly, possibly from the weight of the two babies. The midwives suggested bed rest, hoping the babies wouldn't come prematurely. They guessed that they were around five pounds each at this point in time. They brought me lots of books and lots of snacks, which kept me occupied and gaining about two pounds a week. It was hard to eat. During one particularly active kicking session by Baby Number One, a lower rib cracked. My five foot, four inch frame wasn't exactly designed to carry this kind of load for long. Baby One's head was engaged at this time and Baby Number Two seemed to be face up, although the head was down near my left hip. The next week's exam found I was dilated to five centimeters! Back to bed. It was still three weeks before my due date, and I wanted to fatten them up a bit more. A common complication with twins is prematurity and breathing problems. The greater their birth weights and the closer to term they are carried, the better.
I spent my first three weeks on The Farm in bed. My checkup found a thinning cervix and I was dilating slowly, possibly from the weight of the two babies. The midwives suggested bed rest, hoping the babies wouldn't come prematurely. They guessed that they were around five pounds each at this point in time. They brought me lots of books and lots of snacks, which kept me occupied and gaining about two pounds a week. It was hard to eat. During one particularly active kicking session by Baby Number One, a lower rib cracked. My five foot, four inch frame wasn't exactly designed to carry this kind of load for long. Baby One's head was engaged at this time and Baby Number Two seemed to be face up, although the head was down near my left hip. The next week's exam found I was dilated to five centimeters! Back to bed. It was still three weeks before my due date, and I wanted to fatten them up a bit more. A common complication with twins is prematurity and breathing problems. The greater their birth weights and the closer to term they are carried, the better.
Two whole weeks
later, while I was bathing Abraham, with my dilation at seven centimeters, my
water broke. Three minutes later—rushes! I grabbed Gerrie Sue, one of the
midwives who was staying with me, and off we went to join the other midwives, the
nurses, and the video crew at the larger birth house. Then she washed up and examined me. Eight
centimeters. I wanted to slow everything down a little because it was happening
so fast now. She sat next to me on the big bed and helped me relax. Then
Judith came, smiling so sweetly, and massaged my legs. She
had become such a good friend during the time I was living at her house. Everyone
came in very quietly, so as not to disturb me. This was very calming. No one
felt like she had to chat or joke or distract me. Twenty minutes passed, and
Gerrie Sue could see the first baby's head. I could push slowly. Isaac came
first—seven pounds and fifteen ounces. Everyone cheered. They clamped his cord,
and I held him, completely overwhelmed by this little boy. Then Ina May
prepared to catch Baby Number Two. The bag was ruptured, and her hand was
starting to come first. Ina May tucked it back up inside, which took a few
minutes, and finally, I could push again. Just after Isaac was born, I had
completely forgotten there was another baby. Ruth popped out, weighing seven
pounds seven ounces, only six minutes after Isaac's birth. She was even pinker
and much louder than he was. More cheers. The huge placenta came six minutes
later, with two sacs. My whole labor was only fifty-nine minutes. I nursed both
babies, kissed the cameraman, and called David. We ate some supper, (I felt like a bottomless pit and ate piles of pancakes!) and
everyone went home except for a couple of nurses who stayed all that night with
me. I slept soundly, waking only to feed the twins.
Our whole family was reunited that weekend. I counted each second until David would drive up to the gate. It was so good to see him. He climbed up on the big bed and spent the weekend there, getting to know his new little son and daughter. It was hard to say good-bye. We had become part of this big, loving family. We'll never forget them. We came away with much more than just two healthy babies. I hope we can pass on some of what we learned about giving to others now, too.
Our whole family was reunited that weekend. I counted each second until David would drive up to the gate. It was so good to see him. He climbed up on the big bed and spent the weekend there, getting to know his new little son and daughter. It was hard to say good-bye. We had become part of this big, loving family. We'll never forget them. We came away with much more than just two healthy babies. I hope we can pass on some of what we learned about giving to others now, too.
See "Twin Vertex Birth", 1982, DVD from the Farm of the twins' birth: http://www.inamay.com/natural-delivery-vertex-twins-dvd
Also see the new movies, "Birth Story" and "More Business of Being Born" both with footage from "Twin Vertex Birth."
Also see the new movies, "Birth Story" and "More Business of Being Born" both with footage from "Twin Vertex Birth."
For more
information about the Farm see http://www.thefarmcommunity.com
or for the Farm midwives email: midwives@thefarmcommunity.com
or contact@thefarmmidwives.org
Zehn weitere Geburtsgeschichten aus der Originalausgabe von Ina Mays neuem Buch (Die selbstbestimmte Geburt), die nicht in der deutschen Ausgabe enthalten sind: http://www.inamay.com/natural-delivery-vertex-twins-dvd
Zehn weitere Geburtsgeschichten aus der Originalausgabe von Ina Mays neuem Buch (Die selbstbestimmte Geburt), die nicht in der deutschen Ausgabe enthalten sind: http://www.inamay.com/natural-delivery-vertex-twins-dvd
Stay Tuned! This and other stories will be available in my book, Ma Doula coming out in May 2015!
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